henry copeland: I'm a huge fan of the good-bye-less exit. pllqt.it/FOJB1z
Ghosting, the Irish goodbye, the French leave: stop saying goodbye at parties.Let’s free ourselves from this meaningless, uncomfortable, good time–dampening kabuki. People are thrilled that you showed up, but no one really cares that you’re leaving. Granted, it might be aggressive to ghost a gathering of fewer than 10. And ghosting a group of two or three is not so much ghosting as ditching. But if the party includes more than 15 or 20 attendees, there’s a decent chance none will notice that you’re gone, at least not right away. (It may be too late for them to cancel that pickleback shot they ordered for you, but, hey, that’s on them.) If there’s a guest of honor, as at a birthday party, I promise you that person is long ago air-kissed out. Just ghost. Still think it’s an etiquette breach? Simply replace your awkward goodbye with a heartfelt email sent the following morning.